This is my story of how I got into Choi Kwang Do. My first induction to Choi was quite funny, my daughter and I had gone down to find out what it was all about. After parking the car and walking towards the entrance we saw several young men walking in the same direction in martial art uniforms carrying big padded shields. When we realised we were heading for the same destination that was it, we’re not going in there said to each other and actually turned around and went home.
When Mr Butcher phoned the following day to check we were ok after missing our appointment, I told him what had happened, he sounded disappointed not with us but that such a situation had got in the way of us finding out more. He reassured me that the men we had seen walking in were some of the kindest most considerate people you could wish to meet. We laughed about it agreed to give it another try perhaps when the new full time centre finally opened.
A few months went by and after reading several of Eugene’s articles on longevity and wellbeing I decided that I really needed to try something to improve my health, which put it mildly had been getting the better of me for a number of years.
It did not take long to discover how wrong our assumptions had been on that first visit. Choi is not just for young men, but for women and men of all ages and abilities. My ability to do the simplest things like put on a pair of shoes or go for a walk had been severely limited for a number of years because of constant pain and lack of mobility. My body felt very stiff, painful and I questioned if I would be able to participate at all. Eugene encouraged me and praised me for my courage saying that I was the first person to walk through the door as physically challenged as I was at that time.
Three years earlier I had a major operation, 2 years later I was diagnosed with osteoporosis. At that point, I made the decision to change my life for a healthier lifestyle.
Mr Butcher and the other instructors worked with me very patiently to identify movements I could explore carefully and comfortably. When I started I could only stand on my own for a few minutes before needing to sit in a chair and take a rest. Mr Butcher constantly to take things slowly and rest before I needed to. He also noticed that when I exercised next to other students I would try and keep up with them and try to do more than I was physically ready which also led to me becoming frustrated. My frustration at the time was not only because could I not do what the others were doing but I could not imagine myself ever being able to. Eugene explained that my determination was going to continue to play a big part in my recovery but that we also needed to be patient and focus on the things what I was able to do and the improvements I had already begun to make.
Many times I felt guilty because Mr Butcher or Mr Pinker would often work with me by myself more than other members of class. Eugene asked me to consider myself a pioneer in terms of being the first person to have the courage to walk into the centre as physically challenged as I was at the time. He assured me that the careful, gradual work we were doing would reap benefits not only for myself but for others who would come along after me. After 6 months I’ve seen incredible change in myself and in others.
It’s not easy to describe the changes and improvements I feel. At the time that I started Choi it was a real effort even to stand up for more than for a couple of minutes, after a few months of training something incredible happened to make me realise my progress. While shopping with a friend who knows how unwell I have been. We were about to take the escalator to the floor above in Marks & Spencer when I decided to take the stairs instead, I had not planned to, it was just an impulse at the time and I remember my friends face when she got to the top of the escalator after watching me jog up the stairs for the fun of it.
There is such a huge misconception about Choi because of the fact it is a martial art and people wear a martial arts uniform, I fell victim to that misconception on my first visit when I took one look at the uniforms, turned around and went straight home. Thank god that I was open minded enough to go back for a proper look as otherwise I would have missed something that has made a big difference in my life.
The instructors often describe Choi Kwang Do as a wellbeing programme, I can vouch for that first hand. Thanks to Eugene, Sharmila and the team, I am feeling fitter and healthier and would recommend it to anybody who would like to improve their general health and wellbeing.
Pil Suhng
Everyone."
Linda Berry
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